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Give me a break already. What an oversensitive pack of wussies we've become if people are seriously considering prosecuting the so called "runaway bride" Jennifer Wilbanks, whose story has been sensationalized though the headlines of all the major news networks. I think the popular media is perpetually in a frenzy, looking to produce overhyped stories that lead to showcase trials which the American public sadly loves to consume for pure entertainment value.

Watching CBS News this morning, there was a debate between some witch lawyer from Boston and Gloria Allred, a self-styled victims'-rights advocate. The witch was salivating over the prospect of prosecuting Jennifer and compared her to serial killer Jeffrey Dawmer and Andrea Yates who killed her children in a fit of depression.

Let Jennifer go home, settle down, and think about what she's done. She freaked out about getting married, nothing more. Enough already, send the media home, and kick them in the ass on the way out the door!

In a related "we're all a pack of wussies" story, Boston news has recently highlighted a man who spanked his child with a belt, 3 slaps, for chronically not doing his homework. Clearly the father and son generally have a good relationship, and this man was not abusing his son, and even the law permits spanking your child within a reasonable amount if the parent thinks its warranted. But the child got scared the next day and called his mom, the father's ex-wife, and she called the police and got a restraining order.

Again... Give me a break!

I had many relatives grow up with tough love and they've all turned out fine. Yikes! Get over it already lady! The law which this guy supposedly broke was obviously intended to protect children against serious child abuse and extreme corporal punishment. You can see from the interviews of the child that he loves his father and gets along great.

 


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It's not that she got scared and ran off which is the issue; the issue is the amount of money and resources spent when all she could have done was to call and let her family know she was okay, and to back off. There are communities that don't get a lot of funding and $100,000 is a lot of money for them - what if she'd been from such a community? $100,000 dollars blown and no additional money in the budget for the remainder of the tax year. And we all know how people can go missing all of sudden, such as those poor children in Florida in the past two months or so.


And, I'm reminded of the "boy who cried wolf too often" story. If enough people pull this stunt often enough without suffering the consequences, in the long run people will feel more relunctant to help out in searches for the missing person. There's that larger picture to look at.


Aren't we oversensitized to
situations similar to this as a result of the media hype surrounding
showcase trials like Scott Peterson and rare cases like Mark Hacking
that are fed to us for entertainment value over and over again, and wasn't the size of the manhunt and amount of news coverage overblown?

I think if police wanted to save their budget they could start by elimating waste, such as the overtime costs of the pothole patrols in Massachusetts.

The woman was clearly distressed, even if it was for a week in advance. Why does everyone want to punish her? Don't we have a lot of other things much worse to attend to instead?


Not to mention the stigma that the lawyer on this morning's news reattached to the mentally ill population. The lawyer suggested that Jennifer was mentally unstable, and was subject to scrutiny and punishment as those in the class of Jeffrey Dawmer and Angela Yates. So suddenly all mentall ill people (schizophrenics, brain injured, post traumatic stress disorder) are automatically cast into a class of killers? Come on! Sheeesh!


I totally agree that this story has been overblown. Our media tends to way over do stories, to the point that most people get sick of hearing about it.

But I also think she should be punished somehow for leading everyone astray, and causing a lot of unneccessary expense to her community. I've heard people talk about giving her 2 years probation, and maybe a fine. No jail time, but not letting her get away with it either.


 

 

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